A few times a week, at our evening meal, we read a chapter from the book, "Created for Work". It's a great book that encourages young people be hard workers, get their hands dirty, follow directions, think creatively, respect authority, and happily complete their duties in a timely manner. Our goal is to train our boys (and girl) to think the right way about work, be hard workers, and do it without complaining. So, we try to consistently expect our children to do age appropriate work that contributes to the needs of the family. Our general philosophy on work and children is that they will not get paid for their work. We are working towards instilling in them that doing the work is not about getting money in return it's about doing their part to keep the family and our day running properly. We tell them all the time that no one pays Dad to mow the lawn or fix things that are broken and no one pays Mom when the toilets need to be cleaned, clothes need to be washed, and dinner needs to be cooked. Neither should they expect to be paid to take out the trash, make their beds, and pick up their toys. |